Over the years, I’ve spent thousands of hours taking photos of tombstones for my genealogy research and to post on Find-a-grave. At times, some of the tombstones have turned out to be those of relatives that I’d yet to discover.
The hours spent taking tombstone photos and later cropping and massaging them has been an effort but I’ve been well-paid as I learned a little about the people they memorialized and the communities of their time. Life was different for them than we enjoy. Repeatedly seeing families with numerous infant deaths witnesses that fact, but the family groupings also witness family strengths as generation after generation are buried within a stones throw of each other.
Posting photos of the tombstones I’ve visited on Find-a-grave has been a great way to Pay-it-forward and thank others for their help in my ancestral quest. They live in locations I can’t visit and have taken time to post similar photos on find-a-grave, work on indexing for FamilySearch, etc., and I’ve benefitted from their efforts. Similar activities on my part just add to the reference pool that all of us can freely access.
These resources have become an integral part of my research routine. Family linkages, photos, documents and data being posted on find-a-grave at an ever increasing rate has turn the site into a ‘must search’ in my research quests.
Recently, I spent an evening looking through my records specifically searching for extended family members whose existence has been all but impossible to prove.
Searching find-a-grave for them provided three positive hits in succession. ‘Hits’ is a mild descriptive compared to the data about that branch of the family that had been posted on the site in recent months by someone paying-it-forward too.
Tombstone photos, person photos, vital record documents and text told the stories of the lives in this family. Moves eastward rather than westward surfaced as did the shift in spelling of their surname. No wonder we hadn’t been able to find them for so long. They had indeed ‘faked’ us out with their jigs and jags.
If you haven’t already included find-a-grave in your research plan, add it. Don’t hesitate to add information and images to the records of your own family members on the site. If you didn’t create the memorial, ask the creator to add the data and make the links you send to them. Sometimes, they will transfer the memorial to you if the record isn’t part of their own family.
Over time, we’ll undoubtedly see a lot of additional data added to the site. Be sure to check back. Users of the site almost universally feel a need to take the time to link family records together. I’ve linked my own ancestors records and families together for many generations to help my cousins in their own ancestral quest even though I have their records on my own websites.
You’ll find yourself doing the same thing when you work on your own family memorials on find-a-grave. Bet you can’t link just one…